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Mon, 15 Mar 1999 - 12:00 AM CST

Illinois: District Superintendent Paul Martin and his wife, Ann, recently returned from a ministry trip to Sri Lanka and India. The Martins visited New Life Assembly of God in Chennai, (formerly Madras) India. New Life Assembly is now one of the largest churches in Asia. Three Sunday morning services at 6 a.m., 8:30 a.m., and 11 a.m. have a combined attendance of about 14,000. "I had the privilege of preaching in both the 6 a.m. and 8:30 a.m. services," Martin said. "I know what you're thinking-the same thing I thought-6 a.m.! The chickens aren't even up. The 5,000-seat auditorium was full!" Pastor David Mohan and New Life Assembly have started 120 churches in this city of 8 million people.

New Mexico: The district-sponsored "Church Explosion '99" seminar will be held April 30 and May 1 at First Family Church in Albuquerque. "Strategizing for church growth in the 21st century can be a real challenge," says the Rev. Darrell Kelly, district youth and Christian education director. "Yet God is presenting us with unprecedented opportunities to reach our communities, our nation and our world." The Rev. Alton Garrison, pastor of First Assembly of God in North Little Rock, Ark., will be the featured guest for general and workshop sessions.

Ohio: In the aftermath of Hurricane Mitch, devastated Central American communities will need assistance for years to come. District Foreign Missions Secretary Hugh Rosenberg visited Nicaragua and El Salvador with three other district pastors. He was so moved by the tragedy that he called District Superintendent Robert Crabtree. "I said we have got to help," Rosenberg recalls. He also sent an appeals letter to district churches. "The response was outstanding," he reports. Nearly $63,000 was donated initially. While these funds were used to send shipments of medicine, food and clothing, additional medicines valued at nearly $280,000 were collected. "We are in the process of sending three more containers of food," Rosenberg says. "We hope, for months to come, to continue sending clothing. God has opened doors in marvelous ways."

Southern California: The Rev. Gordon Houston, pastor of the Assembly of God church in San Jacinto, was recently give the "Home Town Hero" award. He and two other local men (both teachers) were chosen by the Valley Merchants Bank as the first three recipients to set the standard for award winners for the years to come. "Gordon wondered what it was all about when the town leaders made the appointment to tell him," says Assistant District Superintendent David Gable. "'We have watched you and your church for years,' they told him, 'trying to figure out what was your ulterior motive for all the things you've done to help here in town. Finally, we decided you didn't have one.'" Gable and District Superintendent Ray Rachels were among the hundreds present at the awards presentation.


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Illinois: District Superintendent Paul Martin and his wife, Ann, recently returned from a ministry trip to Sri Lanka and India. The Martins visited New Life Assembly of God in Chennai, (formerly Madras) India. New Life Assembly is now one of the largest churches in Asia. Three Sunday morning services at 6 a.m., 8:30 a.m., and 11 a.m. have a combined attendance of about 14,000. "I had the privilege of preaching in both the 6 a.m. and 8:30 a.m. services," Martin said. "I know what you're thinking-the same thing I thought-6 a.m.! The chickens aren't even up. The 5,000-seat auditorium was full!" Pastor David Mohan and New Life Assembly have started 120 churches in this city of 8 million people.

New Mexico: The district-sponsored "Church Explosion '99" seminar will be held April 30 and May 1 at First Family Church in Albuquerque. "Strategizing for church growth in the 21st century can be a real challenge," says the Rev. Darrell Kelly, district youth and Christian education director. "Yet God is presenting us with unprecedented opportunities to reach our communities, our nation and our world." The Rev. Alton Garrison, pastor of First Assembly of God in North Little Rock, Ark., will be the featured guest for general and workshop sessions.

Ohio: In the aftermath of Hurricane Mitch, devastated Central American communities will need assistance for years to come. District Foreign Missions Secretary Hugh Rosenberg visited Nicaragua and El Salvador with three other district pastors. He was so moved by the tragedy that he called District Superintendent Robert Crabtree. "I said we have got to help," Rosenberg recalls. He also sent an appeals letter to district churches. "The response was outstanding," he reports. Nearly $63,000 was donated initially. While these funds were used to send shipments of medicine, food and clothing, additional medicines valued at nearly $280,000 were collected. "We are in the process of sending three more containers of food," Rosenberg says. "We hope, for months to come, to continue sending clothing. God has opened doors in marvelous ways."

Southern California: The Rev. Gordon Houston, pastor of the Assembly of God church in San Jacinto, was recently give the "Home Town Hero" award. He and two other local men (both teachers) were chosen by the Valley Merchants Bank as the first three recipients to set the standard for award winners for the years to come. "Gordon wondered what it was all about when the town leaders made the appointment to tell him," says Assistant District Superintendent David Gable. "'We have watched you and your church for years,' they told him, 'trying to figure out what was your ulterior motive for all the things you've done to help here in town. Finally, we decided you didn't have one.'" Gable and District Superintendent Ray Rachels were among the hundreds present at the awards presentation.


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New Research Reveals Over 70 Percent of Marriages Intact

Wed, 17 Sep 2014 - 3:48 PM CST

For decades, the "fact" that one out of every two marriages ends in divorce has permeated the U.S. culture. And a raised eyebrow has been constantly directed at the Church, whose divorce rate was thought to have reached 50 percent as well.

These condemning statistics — and many more — have been repeatedly quoted by leading experts, the media, and even from the pulpit as fact.

But the results of an intensive study have revealed that oft repeated "facts" on marriage statistics are fiction. Moreover, these "facts" are not even close to accurate.

Shaunti Feldhahn
Feldhahn

Shaunti Feldhahn, a Harvard-trained social researcher, spent eight years researching the facts about marriage statistics with her senior researcher, Tally Whitehead. What they discovered surprised even them — marriage in the United States is an incredibly successful institution.

According to their findings, the urban legends that became "marital facts" were based on decades-old "projections," not facts. The actual numbers tell quite a different story.

When comparing the actual statistics to what are now nothing more than "marriage urban legends," the differences are shocking:

* More than 70 percent of all first-time marriages are still intact. Of the less than 30 percent no longer together, that figure includes widows/widowers whose spouses have died.

* The divorce rate of those who attend church is less than that of those who do not attend — up to 50 percent less. Based on her exhaustive research, Feldhahn says the divorce rate of those who regularly attend church is likely in the teens to single digits.

* Feldhahn's study found that 80 percent of married people consider themselves happily married.

* She also discovered that most remarriages are successful.

Dr. Greg Smalley, vice president of Family Ministries at Focus on the Family, adds that there's even a statistical difference when it comes to Christian marriages. "The truth is, there's a huge difference between Christlike marriages and two Christians who are married," he states. "There is almost no divorce with the first — people who pursue Christ, they're staying together because Christ makes a difference."

Smalley also cites another significant study concerning couples who described their marriages as "in crisis" five years ago. Of the couples who chose to stay together, two-thirds now rate their marriages as satisfying.

Greg Smalley
Smalley

"When people hit rocky times, their hearts tend to shut down, they give up and they believe their marriage is over . . . the media and statistics continually reinforce that message," Smalley observes. "But for those who hang in there, weather the storm, and get the help they need, two-thirds now love their marriage!"

Roger Gibson, senior director of Adult and Family Ministries at the AG national offices, was greatly encouraged by Feldhahn's findings.

"Overall, this is groundbreaking for the church and culture," Gibson says. "I think a lot of pastors, leaders and couples have been so influenced by the negative press of divorce statistics that we simply started to give up on marriage. Against such a pessimistic cultural view, Shaunti's research puts the fight back into the case for marriage."

In her quest for the truth, Feldhahn says that she "spoke with leading researchers, dug into the complexities, and began realizing the vast scope of misinformation, incorrectly-interpreted research, studies that downplayed positive findings, and quite often, commonly-cited statistics based on studies that didn't even exist."

One of the most troubling results of her findings is that for decades, some of the most common statistics about marriage were not only unfounded, they discouraged those considering marriage and those who were already married. The statistics seemed to unequivocally declare that the chances of having a lasting marriage, much less a happy one, were far from certain — and the odds were getting worse all the time.

But even that's not true. Feldhahn says that in fact, divorce rates have been declining, despite the promulgation of the urban legends surrounding marriage.

Gary Allen
Allen

Gary Allen, a former U.S. Navy and police chaplain who spent nearly 30 years pastoring Assemblies of God churches, is currently the pastoral advisor/counselor at the AG National Leadership and Resource Center (NLRC). He says Feldhahn's findings confirm what he has personally believed, but had no way to prove.

"In all my years as a chaplain, neither the Navy or police stations I worked with had a divorce rate near 50 percent," Allen states. "And in the churches I served, the couples I married, I believe nearly all of them are still married."

Allen adds that he read on an online dating site that in a survey of more than 19,000 couples married between 2005 and 2012 through the help of this online service, the marital break-ups were under four percent.

Although the time frame is relatively brief (7 years), Allen says this example shows the importance of being intentional in marriage. "As a pastor, couples who came to me went through six weeks of intensive pre-marital counseling," he says. "So, I believe, through my personal experiences, the online study, and Feldhahn's research, with just a little effort on the front end, marriage should be an anticipated successful venture — nothing like this 'roll of the dice,' 50-50 chance that we've been led to believe."

Smalley agrees and says that you can't underestimate the impact of hope — or the lack of it — in marriage.

"I've interviewed many millennials," he says, "and even though they've come from the most divorced generation in the history of our nation, their desire is to be married for a lifetime, but they're not sure it's possible. They've heard over and over again the 50 percent divorce rate; that statistic sticks with them and they're afraid."

And even when marriage is entered into, there is still the spiritual aspect to consider.

"Satan is so attacking us during this time," Smalley says. "We don't often talk about the spiritual battle that is going on, but Satan wants to destroy marriages - he's saying 'You're right, you'll never make it, your marriage is doomed.'"

Roger Gibson
Gibson

But Smalley says when young people are given hope, when they hear that 60-70 percent of marriages are making it, there's a different mindset about marriage, not to mention the ability to weather the difficult times marriages can experience.

"Give people even a tiny bit of hope to hold on to," Smalley observes, "and they start thinking that if someone else can make it, maybe they can too!"

Gibson says Feldhahn's research could ultimately shape the culture of future generations who might think marriage is "old school."

"With cohabitation on the rise over the years, it is obvious many couples don't value marriage or the covenant between husband, wife and God," Gibson says. "However, with Shaunti's new discovery of marriage between husband and wife showing a higher level of happiness, it could be the tipping point to the revitalization of the family."

Feldhahn's findings are also significant for churches and ministries.

"This is our opportunity to cultivate a different mindset about marriage," Smalley says. "Marriage is amazing. God designed it — it's His idea, and God doesn't create junk. It is not only possible, but it's expected that you will have a successful marriage!"

 

Authors: Dan Van Veen

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